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Men and dating patterns

(I will say, in Buenos Aires’ defense, there are also sweet, sensitive Buenos Aires men who are devoted and highly therapized.) The situation is extreme, but the situation is extreme in many places.

My latest discovery is the Whatsapp relationship, aka the “exclusive texting” relationship. Whatsapp is a “cross-platform mobile messaging app”: Think texting if you never used it.

My ex and I broke up a few months ago, and since then I have been dipping back in the dating pool, mostly in Buenos Aires. A friend intervened after a year and she woke up to realize, This is not a relationship.

I find it surprising that I can still be surprised.

Yet with technology making our world so incredibly new I can.

Will a percentage of the population just go for these false-intimacy, buzzing-dinging relationships that provide a dopamine hit of excitement but never a hug?

Are these just the virtual frogs we have to kiss on the diligent search for something real, substantial, live and in the flesh, built on time and love?

That give perfect textual satisfaction…and nothing else?

” In my recent story, I found it so bizarre that this man was texting me all the time with questions, and yet, he lived about a mile away.

Join us for the next Tango Adventure in Buenos Aires to reconnect to yourself and your sensuality whether you are single or partnered. She coaches women on sex, dating/relationships and career via Skype from Buenos Aires where she also leads transformative tango vacations to help her clients reconnect to their confidence, sensuality and lust for life through tango. I'm the author of Quirkyalone To-Do List, and a coach for women who provides a creative, action-oriented alternative to therapy.

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I learned something very valuable years ago: You want the people who want you. Like the guy in his Tinder profile said, no text buddies please.