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Fuck buddy needed sign

My boyfriend and I have worn this argument to the bare bones, but we still don't seem to understand each other. And in some relationships, that's fine as long as the two of you have trust in one another and respect for one another's different points of view.

You need to accept what he's saying at face value and given the evidence of his current behavior: that your relationship has meaning to him, that he is being faithful, that his friends-with-benefits situations with his friends were not Relationships no matter how you understand friends-with benefits, even if he's had sex in both situations and gone to the movies in both situations.

You need to stop pressuring him to create enough distance with his friends for your peace of mind (is there enough distance for that?

And nothing he can say to you is going to make you feel secure about his friends or comforted about his personal morality when it comes to physical intimacy, because that sense of security is something you need to work out in your own head.

Other than the foolish admission that he'd probably bone them again if single, by your own admission, you don't think he'd cheat on you, he doesn't behave in a more-than-friends way towards his former fuck buddies and he's told you that he's not interested in doing anything with them because he's with you.

He says that it shouldn't bother me because he's not doing anything with them, that I should just trust him.

So what is the difference between a relationship with a friend and your relationship with a boyfriend/girlfriend (aside from sex) that lets a boyfriend/girlfriend know that they have nothing to worry about?

In fact, you've allowed that discomfort create a whole situation in your head in which they are conspiring against you, treating you as an "intermission" to their no-strings-attached bonefest and considering you a laughingstock, with no evidence.

You don't even actually know if they'd ever bone him again, if they'll still be single (or single again) at some future point after which you two might have broken up, or what they think of you (other than, I assume, that you aren't very friendly, unless you're an Oscar-award winning actress).

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I feel like a joke to these girls because I want to think our relationship is special when they've had him this way for years.